What hill would you die on?


Before the menu, a question I actually want you to answer.

Wednesday, over on the Substack, I start a series I have been holding onto: 5 Hills I Would Die On as a Black Mom Raising Black Children in the Suburbs.

But before I tell you mine, I want to hear yours.

What is one hill you would die on raising your children? The thing you will not bend on, no matter who it makes uncomfortable. Hit reply and tell me one.

Now. Let's talk about dinner.

This week's menu:

Monday: Marry Me Salmon Linguini with Spinach and Mushrooms

Tuesday: Steak Tacos, Mexican Skillet Corn

Wednesday: Sweet Heat Chicken Wings, Sweet Potatoes, Broccoli

Thursday: Spaghetti and Meatballs, Mixed Veggies, Garlic Bread

Friday and Saturday: leftovers

Sunday: Buttermilk Baked Chicken, Mashed Potatoes, Green Beans, Cornbread

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